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I absolutely agree with 404. I ended a 3 year relationship 5 months ago, and after a lot of depression and thinking, the most important thing I've learnt since then is that you cannot have a good lasting relationship unless you do things for yourself first, and get to know yourself. Then you'll be comfortable with yourself. My ex and I were extremely close, but if both of us learnt to deal with problems ourselves more, then our relationship wouldn't have been so bad.
I wasn't in the same position as you, in fact we were the opposite. But I suppose the same lesson is to be learnt.
Do things for yourself and he'll want you more.
There probably are a higher number of unhappy marriages this way, but I think those ones are just not doing it right. i.e. thinking hard enough about whether the person is right for them. But those that do have the freedom to, will choose to get to know each other properly first...and then decide.
Wow that sounds great, congratulations! I hope so much I find someone. I emailed this guy I was just telling you guys about....turns out he's married.
How hilarious! I'm actually so proud of myself though for asking anyway. But I hate so much being single...I have very few single friends.
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