Not an arranged marriage as most people would think of it. The term used is "approved marriage". Basically, my parents prefered me to marry someone from our community, therefore having a similar background in terms of family, traditions etc. So I had lots of people introducing me to such guys and had to go on many many many blind dates - if we didnt like each other, no one was forcing us. Luckily I found the guy in the end!

H

Can suggest my parents country Trinidad and Tobago, especially TOBAGO, the island is small and the beaches are like Paradise, absolutely beautiful

Thanks Jenny, that sounds great too. The problem is there are too many amazing places to visit, it's getting difficult to make a decision!

HangSeng, I have been to HK previously, was hoping to go somewhere that was new to both of us.

How about Chesterfield? I hear that is nice, especially on Friday & Saturday nights

lol I don't live that fair from Chesterfield! It's not much of a week abroad though....

Cuba is stunning. My grandmother is Cuban. Its such a fantastic place, so so beautiful, and such a different culture. We are going to try and get out there again, before Castro dies.

Oh, and it's nice to have you back H - you disappeared for a while, what happened? Were you choosing wedding venues?

something like that