Having a Baby

B

Hey Susmo...I guess this is what worries me. How old was your friend when she had her children? I will be 25 when I finish my PhD, which I think is a good age for me. What a dilemma!

H

Bobby, thats still really young! I will be 28 when I finish, a bit too close to 30 for my liking as I have always wanted at least one by the time I was 30.

B

Morning H - yeah I know its still pretty young, but my partner is quite a lot older than me, which I think makes quite a bit of difference!

K

My boyfriend is 2 years older than me but wants kids later than me, my family menopauses young so I'm too scared to wait very long!

B

yeah, but mine is 39!!

H

Mine is a year older but hes not in any rush!

B

Maybe postgrad stress is contributing to my baby fever. Don't you sometimes think, sod it, I'm going to go home and have babies instead?!

H

Yes, when my friends ask me what I'm gonna do after the phd, I always say, become a housewife and baby machine.

H

I don't think I would want five but my birth chart said something about 3 kids so who knows.

Also, at 44, I would hope the kids are over 10 years old, I can't be doing with pregnancy at that age, would be hoping to get further up in industry to manager positions.

H

You could name your own baby HangSeng?

T

If I ever have a baby I will name it HangSeng

A

No- I'd call the child Dan or Daniella

A

Dan - B ecause I think it is a beautifull name. Daniella- Because there are always more girls born in our family than boys. Or I could call a girl Artemis after the protein I'm working on. Godess of hunt and child birth.

Good thing I'm not working on Cernunnos- celtic god (also known as haerne) that was turned into the devil (he has stag horns) by christianity. Or Xrcc1- then the baby would really be in trouble... na, better stick with Dan

A

... wouldn't that come across as a bit self centred?

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