hi there. i too have broken up with my partner. only last week. i too felt devastated and didnt think i could cope. then i found a fantastic book with mind programming cd - "i can heal your broken heart" by paul mckenna. its the most amazing thing i have ever read. i read it yesterday!! and i feel so much more positive today. Buy it - you must, i cant tell you how much it has helped. i felt close to suicide and now i can see a future. good luck xx