So, my district superintendent mentioned that I should pursue my doctorate, and since I respect them, I investigated a program, applied and got accepted. Now, I hate it. The work is either mind-numbing busy work (for a doctorate? really?), or so pressuring that I stay stressed. One of my professors, in response to an email I wrote for some guidance, told me I should pursue topics that interest me, I should decide my doctorate based on what the literature says. I'm holding down a 4.0, but I really DON'T CARE. I feel like I made this decision because of someone else's expectation, not because I wanted it. And, in reality, I don't think I do. But, now, how do I quit without losing face and prestige? I'm so concerned about how others will react, and that's the last reason I should use in making a decision. But, I wouldn't be in this position if I didn't care about someone else's opinion. fml.