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Pre-VIVA blues
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Will treat myself to something fun today! 8-) Thanks again!
Enjoy!
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Pre-VIVA blues
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I imagine it might just be that your nerves are manifesting themselves as depression? I think it's common to suffer withdrawal symptoms after submitting. You were constantly motivated by that goal and you reached it, but are in a bit of a limbo land until the actual VIVA. Have you felt like doing any of the things you didn't have time to during the last few weeks/months? Maybe you just need a good distraction. Just think of all the struggling PhDs who would love to be in your place! You have submitted and should be very proud! Hope you feel better soon. :-)

What would you do differently?
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Quote From Busybee:

I'd have written all my notes in organised word files so I could copy and paste bits of them! I'm in the process of writing up now and I have notebooks all over the place and am spending half my time looking for bits and pieces and copy typing! It's very annoying!

:-)
You poor thing! Fortunately, I hate writing by hand and so have been doing this.

Do other PhD students find it difficult to meet a partner?
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Quote From Dalmation:

At first, I was very naive and thought academic conferences were all about networking with people doing similar research, but no...it has a lot to do with err - I believe the term is "hooking up" with sapiosexuals. Must confess, I've vicariously enjoyed all the post-conference stories.

This is also news to me! I suppose it does make sense... an intellectual compatibility is probably more important to me than anything else. With a twisted sense of humour coming in a close second.

Do other PhD students find it difficult to meet a partner?
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Quote From phdbug:

Exactly what Wally said and yesterday a (girl) friend of mine told me at the pub that one reason might be because I come across as "extremely confident (to the extent of seeming intimidating), very articulate (To the extent of scaring people), very focused (To the point of being demanding))

And she explained nicely with instances and body language explanations and I thought she was verrry correct! But she told me (and I agreed) that I shouldn't necessarily change this above and try a more vulnerable/quiet/'sweet' mode for that just isn't me...

Plus... also.... I kind of (deep down) have a clinical acknowledgement that relationships are good and it's nice to have a spectacular career and a spectacular family and it's possible etc (but that's digressing) but deep (deep) down, I don't think I am too bothered with relationships just yet and make no extra attempt at all...

Would like to be with someone by 30.... but that's 5 years away and maybe I'll be less intimidating then :-) To cut a long story (not very) short, in answer to the last sentence in the OP's post - I do nothing to actually try and meet partners!!
[old post I know], but basically this all applies to me. I've been told that my zero-tolerance for bullshit [or chat up lines] and academic success make me too intimidating. Also, I'm very introverted and slow to open up to people. I will happily debate and discuss, but not personal issues. For those familiar with Myers Briggs Personality Typing, I'm an INTJ - which is meant to be 1 in 200 women and 1 in 50 men. Basically, I have a personality that people associate with men [rational, non-emotional, little expression of feelings - despite having them!] and this seems to be disconcerting for men. At least the ones I tend to meet, who get seem to be surprised/confused because I dress very femininely and they have a preconceived notion of how I will behave. I am very independent, but I am at the point in my life where a relationship would be nice. I'm not going to force it though.

Fully-funded PhD students - How long for a PhD ?
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Hi Lullaby,

This fairly recent thread has lots of responses on the shortest possible duration: http://www.postgraduateforum.com/threadViewer.aspx?TID=21629

Basically, I think the answer is ''it depends'' ; if you are focused predominantly on the thesis for three years and if your supervisor is quick about reading your work and giving feedback, then 3 years is definitely possible. But, things may happen that are beyond your control - personal circumstances, internal delays in the department, etc.

I'm in the same position as you and I'm determined to get it finished within the three years. (up)

To do a PhD or not
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To be honest, I would be a bit weary of this supervisor's motivations. Has she mentioned funding possibilities for you? Or is her department simply after your fees. No-one should try to convince you to do something of this scale. You need to be the one driving the process. Her promising you her students never fail is a very negative place to begin the discussion.
Your reasons for doing a PhD have to be strong enough to get you through the difficult times. If you don't want to stay in academia and if it isn't a requirement for the work you want to do in the future, then I imagine doing it simply for the prestige is not going to be reason enough.

How do I obtain funding to go to conferences?
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I don't know about organizations, but you should be able to apply within your department? Have you tried searching your university's website for how to apply?

How do I deal with this?
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I think I understand what they mean: when you write a chapter, it is meant to flow - each element connecting to those before and after, without too much repetitiveness. If you make changes to X, Y, and Z at the suggestion of your supervisor, then items you insert or cut have a knock-on effect on various parts of the chapter. Basically, you have to use your intuition to work out what relates to what else and in what way. You need to always be aware of the questions you have raised and whether or not you answer them in a way that makes sense to the reader.

I know that might seem like a convoluted response, but it's a difficult question to answer!

Lost, really don't know what to do and want to quit
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Really glad to hear you are sticking with it, lost final year! Sometimes a break and a pep talk from someone who has faced the same problem is all you need. Best of luck with your new method. You will get there. (up)

Everything crossed for Sneaks
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Brilliant new. Congratulations, Dr. Sneaks! 8-)

PhD gloom or not?????
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Thanks for coming back with some rays of optimism, donzy! Best of luck with your viva. :)

Part-time PhD
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I thought my eyes were deceiving me when I read '9 years ago'. I didn't even realize the forum was that old.

Possible to finish a PhD in 2 - 2.5 years?
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Thanks Delta and Ady regarding when funding would stop. Mine is very hand-off - all automatic with no progress reports, so I can't see them stepping in between my submitting and my viva. I'm getting very ahead of myself though!

Possible to finish a PhD in 2 - 2.5 years?
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Quote From delta:

I think it can be done but depends on the type of project and things such as data collection, ethics and waiting on feedback from supervisors etc, etc. If these all ran smoothly and no waiting was involved then a PhD could be completed in less than 3 years easily. For me, there was a lot of hanging around at points waiting for things to happen and this held the process up. I also didn't want to finish before the funding run out because a studentship pays significantly more than unemployment but didn't want to go over the time either as I wasn't prepared to pay for writing up.
Would the funding generally stop once you submit the thesis? Or when you have the Viva (and pass with minor/major corrections)?

My aim is to finish 2-2.5 years (humanities), but I know that may not be possible - even if I am focused like a laserbeam. I figure that if I plan for 2.5 years then at least I will have lee-way of a few months before my funding is up.