Quote From marasp:
I see other people in my age, they come back from their 9-5 work, they do their hobbies, they have a personal life, they go out, they meet their friends, they have families. I don't say they are happy, but they certainly look happier than some of us. To put it straight, they look happier and have achieved more in life than myself.
Let me reassure you this is not the case. For a few people, it may be true, but I guarantee any decent job these days comes at a high price. There is increasing pressure to achieve more at work; to put in many, many hours of unpaid overtime to work yourself to death for the benefit of shareholders. You think these people look happy in their 9 - 5 but those ones with an actual 9 - 5 are at the other end of the spectrum - poorly paid and with little hope of flexibility, promotion or job satisfaction.
Happiness is your choice. Take some time to really think about what you want to do with your life and go and do it - that's how you find happiness. Don't look at others and think they have it better than you because they are probably looking at you and thinking the exact same thing.